So, I went to the park with my kids, Scout and Cooper, after I got home from work. It was beautiful outside. The sky was blue about 75 degrees with a slight breeze and kids were playing, really a perfect afternoon after work. I looked around and thought, hey I am the only Dad here". I was astonished by that. I mean it is the twenty-first century. There is numerous research articles about how kids get screwed up when dads blow off their kids. You have one article I read that talks about daughters starting periods later because of better father relationships. (God, I have to make sure Scout and I have a great relationship.) Another one I read said that when a Dad checks homework even periodically the child does better in school. My dad never checked my homework. I know everyone can tell. It is one article after the next article after and still I was the only Dad there at the park today. I know guys have to work. I know we are busy and tired. I understand men are stressed but I spent a total of 45 minutes at the park watching my kids play. I spent time pushing my kids on the swings. I stood underneath them for a spot as they went across the monkey bars. It was fun.
I know many dad's will say, "Hey I spend time with my kids. I coach her team or take him to karate". Do we really take time and spend with them in environments where it is fun and no one is pressured? Create those. Today, it was special for so many reasons. The main was just cause I got to hang out with my 2 favorite kids. Hey, and I know a lot of kids.
Here is a place where I can put down some things in my head. It may be spiritual it might not be. I hope if you read it, you enjoy.
Thursday, January 21, 2010
Friday, January 15, 2010
Starting
I wanted to start a blog as a new years resolution. I figured today would be as good as any to get started because January is half over. I have been here at our new church now for nearly 2 months. The excitement is still going strong. I think my family settling into routines and making friends. It is a wonderful time to be at our house. As hard as it is to move, I think there is something very cool about starting new. Get to meet new people and have fresh experiences. It feels like you have no limitations. I can do anything and propose anything and it feels like it will work and get accepted.
Is this what new Christians feel like? They find something new in their lives. They feel like they can do anything because of this new relationship they have. They have found a fresh dose of empowerment in their lives. How often do Christians get beaten down by being a Christian?
I have always said I have an issue with people that get burned out by doing the thing God has put a passion in their lives for. I don't think I ever read in the Bible where Paul got burned out from doing ministry? Or Peter needing to take a break from church because he had to much going on?
Boy this blog is moving all over the place. I guess that is what is going on in my head. Always scatter shooting. Just a few thoughts.... Go Cowboys beat the Vikings!
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